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I'm looking for women to relax, have fun, and enjoy time with, on several different levels.

An interesting blend of loud and introverted. I'm reserved until I'm comfortable, and then I'm chatty, with a twist of silly and a handful of sarcastic. But I'm a true introvert, and after being social for a while I need to stick my nose in a book to recharge.
I'm happily married, but I enjoy sex with women. Hubby will know about, but not be included in, any activities. I've got a significant kink factor, so don't feel a need to hide your inner freak!

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height6' 0" (183 cm)
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorAuburn / red
Hair LengthShoulder length
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo


Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Have PetsDog, Fish
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
Employment StatusSelf-employed

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Dramas
Favorite TV showsBig Bang Theory
Documentaries, particularly nature or pre-renaissance history

Yeah, I'm a geek. :)
Favorite movies typesI don't like movies
Music typesCountry, Rock, Classical
Reading selectionAnthology, Biography, Comic, Fantasy, Horror, Humor, Mystery, Nature, Science, Science fiction
Favorite booksI LOVE Terry Pratchett's Discworld books. I'm also enjoying the Stephanie Plum series by Janet Evanovich.


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asA flirt
In High School I was a(n)Jock
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, Relaxing, Reading a book, Playing video games, Going to a museum


Attend religious servicesNever

Looking For

Must maveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI like a partner who's submissive, but only when the situation calls for it. I'm not interested in a doormat.
"If two people agree about everything, one of them is unnecessary."
On the first dateThere's no single answer for that. It varies too greatly with who's involved, time of year, comfort levels, etc.